It’s a fact of life that sex doesn’t stay the same. Many people assume that it has to get worse with age, but it doesn’t have to be that way. Sexual satisfaction is a function of emotional connection, so if you’re looking to amp up your sex life, there is a good chance the answer will be found out of the bedroom. If you want to experience mind-blowing sex and an intimate connection with your spouse, here are five things you can do.
Go out on a Date
If you and your wife have been married for a while, there is a good chance that you haven’t gone out on a date in a while. Many married couples get to a point in their relationship that is commonly called “the comfort zone.” This zone is not one that you want to be in, as your relationship may feel more like a friendship. To prevent this from happening, ask your wife out on a date.
Ask your woman out on a date. Choose an activity that is romantic, such as a romantic comedy for a movie or a nice restaurant. This can help to spark a little bit of romance and passion in your relationship, which may lead to better and closer intimacy at home.
Show Romantic Gestures
When it comes to “wowing,” in a relationship, man sometimes think that women should do it.
You will also want to “wow,” your wife, like you did the first time that you met. One of the easiest ways to do so is by performing a number of romantic gestures.
When out shopping with your wife, grab their hand and hold it. When walking by them in the house, give them a quick kiss.
Sending a love note to work with them is another romantic gesture that you may want to try.
Be Sexy and Seductive
If your marriage enters into the above mentioned comfort zone, sex and intimacy may seem like a thing of the past. If you do have sex, it may seem more like a responsibly, a chore, or even work.
To help reduce these feelings, be sexy and seductive. Do not wait for your wife to initiate sex and do not ask if your woman is up for it first, just get right down to business.
Women strip for your husband or simply just remove their clothes. Snuggle next to them on the couch and just start massaging their whole body. You may be surprised just how easy and effective it is to be sexy and seductive.
As it was previously stated, do not ask your husband./wife if he wants to have sex and do not wait for him or her to start. Instead, take matters into your own hands.
Whether you start with a little bit of foreplay or jump right into the intercourse, do so. Your partner should like the surprise. Also, remember that being spontaneous involves having sex at different times of the day, as well as in different locations of the house.
Offer to Experiment In the Bedroom
To improve sex and intimacy it is important to know that a change can do you good. You may want to suggest to your husband that you experiment in the bedroom or take them up on their suggestion to do so. Remember that experimenting in the bedroom doesn’t have to mean getting an additional sex partner or doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable. A new sex position may be just what your relationship needs.