7 Easy Ways to Spice Up Things in the Bedroom

7 Easy Ways to Spice Up Things in the Bedroom

Have you started noticing the lack of heat in the sex department?

It’s nothing to be ashamed of really, after some time people tend to get comfortable and forget that fizzle that they used to have for trying new things.

I know some might think is time they terminate the relationship. But what is the relationship is long term? Maybe you married, what if you really love your partner.

In this post I will outline 7 easy ways to spice up things in the bedroom.


Tip # 1: Try a new place(anywhere but not the bedroom)

Are you tired of the same old approach in your bed ?

Try switching things up, do not have sex in your bed, try any other place than your bed.

The shower, kitchen counter, the possibilities are endless.


Tip # 2:  Engage in Foreplay

Is your partner getting right down to business when you have? If he does that might a big problem as intimacy is more than just having sex.

It Is about having a happy and healthy relationship.

Start engaging in foreplay before sex. And remember foreplay does not have to start in the bedroom.

Call your lover, send a text message, or a handwritten note expressing your desires to get intimate with them later on.


Tip # 3 Send a Racy Text or Email

Has your babe been out and about all day, working long hours and just busy in general?

If yes, why not send him a racey text message or email just to let him know that when his he busy you are thinking on one thing!

If you’re feeling really daring, send a sexy picture too, I’m sure that will get him home really fast!


Tip # 4 Talk About Your Fantasies

One of the biggest reasons why couples have problems with sex is because one person isn’t having their desires fulfilled.

Are your desires fulfilled?

Does your partner know what you like or what you want to get out of being intimate?  If not, it is time for you to let them know.

Be sure to talk to your partner about your sexual fantasies and desires.  What would you like to try in the bedroom?

In addition do not be afraid to expressing your wants, needs, and darkest fantasies, be sure to let your partner do the same.  Remember that both of you should walk away from an intimate encounter pleased.


Tip # 5 Try New Position

Do you tend to start one way and default to the same old position?

Well switch it up and keep it like that.

Just ensure you are not doing the same old position till your partner get bored. All little variety is good!


Tip # 6 Experiment in the Bedroom

Another one of the easy ways that you can spice up things in the bedroom is by experimenting.

When doing so, you may be pleased with all of your options.  For starters, you can try a new sex position.  This may not only lead to extra pleasure, but fun and excitement.

Sex toys, romantic or pornographic videos, and role playing are other good ideas for experimenting in the bedroom.

Remember that experimenting in the bedroom is a good way to spice up your intimacy, but be sure to use your best judgment.


Tip # 7 Have Fatansy Night

We all got fantasies, why not try and live a couple of you and your honey’s fantasies out.

Does he want a full services made?

Do you want a steamy doctor?

Tell each other. So that you both get what you want out of it.

So set aside a night where you can be something different for each other.


So there you have it!  You now have a few ideas on how you can go about spicing up things in the bedroom.  So what are you waiting for?  Get started today.

Comment below and let us know how you spice things in the bedroom

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