In this post we will take you through things you should be doing to your woman’s clitoris.
When it comes to making a person with a vulva orgasm, most folks need more than plain old penetration.
Yes your penis is great and all, but only a quarter of vulva owners routinely come during vaginal intercourse, meaning that a lot of people need some form of clitoral stimulation in order to climax.
Packed with nerve endings, the clitoris is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones. It has around 8,000 nerve endings, which is double the number in a penis.
So what can you do to give your partner a mind-blowing clitoral orgasm?
Well, for starters, make sure you know where to find the clitoris: at the top of the vulva, just under the spot where the inner labia meet. The clitoris also extends up to 5 inches inside the body.
And now, to stimulate the clitoris? If not sure ask your partner!
Surprise your partner tonight with one—or all—of these clitoral stimulation tricks, using not just your tongue, but also your lips, fingers, and toys. And don’t forget: there are a number of sex positions where you can reach around and stimulate your partner’s clit with your fingers or a vibrator during penetration. There’s no reason why penetration and clit stimulation have to be separate; the two can (and should!) exist in perfect harmony.
- Pick a Side
When it comes to clitoral stimulation, 4 out of 10 women have a preferred side, Ask her if there’s a side she likes better—and if she’s not sure, experiment on both.
- Use your imagination.
When you’re flicking your tongue over her clitoris, imagine you are painting a fence from top to bottom, then move your tongue side to side.
- Suck and Nibble
Instead of just licking her, use your lips and tongue to suck on her clit.
The entire vulva consists of sensitive nerve fibers. So being able to suck on the glans or the head of the clit and lightly nibble on her inner and outer labia, or suck a little on labia, will stimulate the nerve fibers.
The sucking will also lead to increased vasocongestion, or more blood flow, to the vulva and the clitoris.
- Don’t Forget the Shaft
While a lot of attention is spent on the tip of the clitoris—the part located at the top of the vulva—it also has two “legs” that extend up to five inches inside the body, known as the “shaft.”
Slide your fingers to either side of her clitoral shaft. Pull and push the clitoral hood across the clitoris and move in circles, diagonals, and spontaneous un-choreographed fashions so as to stay unpredictable.
- Play the Harmonica
Once your partner is in the midst of an orgasm, add some oral vibration to her experience.
Make your lips into an O and take her clitoris in your mouth. Then make humming sounds as you suck on her clit, as if you are playing the harmonica, so that she can feel the warm, wet vibrations.
- Draw circles
In study 3 out of 4 women said they love it when you trace little circles on or around the clit. You can use your tongue, your finger, or two fingers—or all of the above.
It is noted that some women prefer the clockwise movement – which is when you trace from the bottom of th