Top 11 Worst Reasons to Get Married

Most couple get marred for many different reasons, but sometimes most people get married for the wrong reasons. If you having cold feet know that there are good reasons to cancel a wedding and some and some bad reasons to get married either.

In this blog post I will be outlining the top 10 reasons to get married.

Guilt From Your Parents/society

Parents can be good at sending their kids to all-expenses paid guilt trips. They would say things like “I just want to see you get married before I dier. Is that too much to ask?” or maybe “I’m the only one of my friends without grandchildren. When are you going to settle down, marry, and have kids?” or even simple “when are you getting married” get make you feel guilty if asked enough times in the right way.

Regardless, guilt is a terrible reason to get married. You need to live you life and do the best thing for you.

Sex

We know some religion ask you to wait until marriage to have sex, you might get tempted to rush to get that dream wedding. Surely its hard to wait while others are having sex. Sex shouldn’t be the reason to get married as its just one way to you and partner feel good.

Try giving each other massages, have long make out sessions, express your love in different ways.

Kids

Most people get married quickly after they are pregnant. Other want kids so bad so that they get married to someone who is not really right for them.

If your girlfriend if pregnant you might feel extra pressure from your family to tie the knot. Please realize that there are many different options available to you, including having the client together not getting married, raising the child alone and considering other options.

The ticking of a biological clock or a pregnancy can be another powerful motivator, but shouldn’t land you in a loveless marriage.

To Have a Dream Wedding

A wedding is an amazing, beautiful thing that can strengthen your relationship and improve your life. However, there’s also a lot of hype around weddings that can make you really want one, even if you’re not ready, or your sweetheart isn’t marriage material. From the hyperbolic rhetoric of “the best day of your life” to shiny pictures in magazines, it’s easy to be swept away by the fantasy of a wedding day.

The truth is that your wedding is just one day and marriage is for the rest of your life. You can still have that dream wedding when you are truly ready for it. By not rushing your wedding, you can have a longer and more special engagement that will help prepare you for a long and special marriage.

To Get Presents

Many people eagerly look forward to the presents that waits when they get married. Yet this cant be the only reason to get married. You might infact spend more money in the wedding than you would buy yourself the presents.

Before you rush in, make sure that your beloved is really who you want to be sharing those towels with for the rest of your life.

Loneliness

Being lonely is hard, and many people are afraid of being alone. When you get to a certain age, it might seem like a person is your “last good option.” But you will meet other people to love, and if you settle, you might miss out on someone really amazing later on.

When you feeling lonely remember the powerful, successful people who have never married i.e Oprah, Condoleezza Rice, Bill Maher, and Al Pacino, to name just a few.

 

All Your Friends Are Getting Married

You might feel left out if it seems like everyone but you is headed to the altar.

It is nice to go through life’s milestones on the same track as your friends. Then again, it’s always better to be the last of your friends to get married than the first one to get divorced.

As a bonus, if you wait, your friends will have better wedding advice and more time to help you with yours.

You’re Feeling Pressure

This might be the most common reason people have a wedding before they’re ready. There’s intense pressure in a marriage proposal, and it’s not easy to say, “I love you but I’m not ready yet.”

If you really love someone, you owe it to them to be honest. It’s hard and painful, but it’s a lot easier than living a lie or having to say that you never wanted to get married.

Your Ex Is Engaged

There is a sick, delicious joy in telling an ex that you’ve found someone better. When an ex is engaged, it might feel like the shoe is on the other foot.

There are many better ways to make an ex realize that you are the one who got away.

Money

Marrying for money is a tired cliché . Money can make life easier, but it can also make life more complicated, and it’s never as valuable as being loved.

Remember, when you get legally married, you take on a person’s debt along with their assets.

Some people aren’t as rich as they seem. Even if you have found someone who is truly wealthy, it might create a power imbalance that will prevent you from having a happy life together. Make sure that love is the main reason you’re getting married, not money.

Lifestyle Tips for Men Over Age 50

In this blog post I will be outlining top healthy lifestyle guidelines for men  aged 50 and over. The activities good for 50-year-olds, what health screening are important and more.

What is your top healthy lifestyle? Leave them at the comment section at the end of the blog post.

Important health screening for men age 50 and over

Medical screening is tests that helps to look for diseases in their early stages before symptoms develop.

Which screening one should have depends on their family history, personal health history and lifestyle habits.

The following lists include some of the most important screening for men over age of 50 but do not include possible screening.

It is advised to consult your doctor on what screening you should have and how often.

Cholesterol: Higher cholesteol increase the risk for heart disease and stroke. Blood tests are used to measure cholesterol levels.

Blood pressure: High blood pressure increases the risk of heart attack, stroke, and other diseases. A blood pressure check is an easy, painless, noninvasive screening that can be done in the doctor’s office.

Colon cancer: It is recommended that all men should be screened for colon cancer starting at age 50 until age 75. Several types of screening are available to find polyps in the colon that could develop into colon cancer.

If have family history of colon cancer it is advise to talk to your doctor as to when to have the tests at a younger age.

Prostate cancer: A simple blood test called the PSA (prostate-specific antigen) test can find early prostate cancer.

Black men have higher risk of risk then white men for postate cancer at younger age. Advise to get checkup early.

 

A healthy diet for men age 50 and over

A healthy diet can help reduce heart diseases, type 2 diabetes, obesity and some types of cancers.

Fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and fat-free or low-fat dairy products are healthy choices. Lean meats, poultry, fish, beans, eggs, and nuts are good sources of protein, too. For heart health and weight management.

it’s important to eat foods that are low in saturated fats, trans fats, cholesterol, salt, and added sugars.

 

The top Health Lifestyle Guidelines for men age 50 and over

The most important guidelines for a healthy lifestyle after age 50 are the same for men and women at any age:

  • Get 7 to 8 hours of sleep.
  • Eat a healthy diet
  • Stay at a healthy weight.
  • Be physically active.
  • Don’t smoke.
  • If you drink alcohol, have no more than two drinks a day
  • Get routine exams and screenings

Following the above can help you to be in good health and reduce the risk of many diseases that are more common in older men.

 

Type of activities good for men over the age of 50

One of the best activities is physical activity for men over age of 50 to improve their heart health, muscle strength, flexibility and balance. It will help reduce diseases like dementia.

Aerobic or cardio exercise gets the heart pumping and uses large muscle groups.

Walking, biking and swimming are all aerobic exercises.

Working with dumbells or weight machines training will help to build up muscle.

 

Does quitting smoking make a difference

Yes it does, It is never too late to quit smoking. As soon as a smoker quits, the body begins to heal the damage caused by smoking.

Smokers who quit quickly notice they can breathe easier, have more energy, lose the “smoker’s cough” and have a better sense of taste and smell.

For long-term health, quitting smoking lowers the risk of hearth attack, stroke, and high blood pressure.

Quitting smoking can help men over age 50 feel better, be more active with family and friends, and enjoy their second half of life in better health.

 

The connection between men’s health age 50 and over with sexual health

 Several scientific studies suggest that chronic diseases like diabetes, high blood pressure, and heart disease affect a man’s ability to perform sexually.

The more severe the disease, the more severe the erectile dysfunction. Men over age 50 experiencing sexual problems should talk to their doctor at men’s health clinic Sandton to find out if a medical condition is causing the problems.